What are words?

Saturday, September 4, 2010, 11:41 PM

Maybe that’s what it all comes down to. Love, not as a surge of passion, but as a choice to commit to something, someone, no matter what obstacles or temptations stand in the way. And maybe making that choice, again and again, day in and day out, year after year, says more about love than never having a choice to make at all.

By chance, my msn friend chatted with me. She told me how she's feeling kinda upset about her r/s. From small bickering to major fights. And now she felt so neglected that everytime her boyfriend go out with his peeps, he's like ignoring her.

I smiled when she told me about her situation. I told her, I used to have that feelings before. Like everytime the bf went out, the bf will seldom text or called, leaving us all alone by ourselves, and thus made us feel so neglected. She felt that she's not important in his life anymore.

But she's so silly. I explained and told her she mustn't feels that way. I've made that mistake once.

Sometimes, you just need to let things go by itself, giving each other freedom particularly with their own friends. If you trust each other, there will be no problem.
But she asked me this,

" But he never tell me who he went out with. He just told me with his "friends".I don't even know whether its a girl or guy friend."

Hmmmm.That made me think twice too. Maybe he have his reasons for not telling.When he says that its just friends, it will be JUST friends. (I hope so.)

So this friend of mine don't even know what to do. But I could only help her based on my own experience. But I think that the bf or gf should tell or know who their gf or bf are going out with, to prevent any misunderstanding. That is the most important thing to do.

As we all know, girls are little bit sensitive.hehe.
Be patient babe. If he loves you, he will not do something bad behind your back.
Trust and clear any doubts with each other alright?

Speaking of that, the bf is out with his friends too.LOL.
shall turn in early.
have fun love.
:D